Living as an LGBTQI person in Pakistan can be isolating and dangerous. Many queer individuals feel alone, unable to share their identity with family or society. Yet, finding friends and partners who understand you is essential for mental health, emotional resilience, and a better life.
Many LGBTQI couples in Pakistan live together in hiding, and some who had the resources have traveled abroad and married. Building friendships and peer support networks is not just about romance — it’s about survival, joy, and solidarity.
🚫 Risks on Dating Platforms in Pakistan
Due to censorship and surveillance, most LGBTQI websites and dating apps are blocked in Pakistan. The Federal Investigation Agency (FIA), National Cyber Crime Investigation Agency (NCCIA), and other security bodies have used honey traps on blocked gay dating apps accessed via VPNs and proxies.
Now, even VPNs and proxies are being blocked, making access more dangerous. Homophobic gangs and individuals also use these apps to target LGBTQI people, leading to blackmail, extortion, and in some tragic cases, murder. Victims often cannot go to the police due to fear of further persecution.
📱 Apps You Can Use to Connect
Despite restrictions, many people still use general messaging and social media apps to find LGBTQI friends
Social Media & Messaging Apps
LGBTQI Dating Apps (Use with caution)
🌈 PridePakistan.org Peer Support Group
We understand how hard it is to find safe spaces. That’s why PridePakistan.org offers a peer support group for LGBTQI individuals in Pakistan. You can:
- Join private group chats
- Attend virtual meetups
- Share your story anonymously
- Find friends and mentors
To join, please fill out our membership form. We protect your privacy and never share your data.
You are not alone. There are thousands of LGBTQI people in Pakistan who are looking for connection, friendship, and love. Building community is an act of courage and healing. Whether you’re seeking a friend, a partner, or just someone to talk to — you deserve safety, joy, and support.
🛡️ Safety Tips for Online Connection
If you choose to connect online:
- Never share personal details (address, workplace, ID) until trust is built.
- Use encrypted messaging apps and avoid apps that require location sharing.
- Meet in public places if you decide to meet someone.
- Avoid using VPNs or proxies unless you are confident in their safety.
- Report suspicious behavior to trusted community groups.
Report an Incident
If you have used any of these services and faced discrimination or been refused help because of your identity, please let us know. We document these cases to fight for better protections for the LGBTQIA+ community in Pakistan.
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